women seems we were destined to suffer, often due to abuse and mistreatment. Some feel that there is no escape, that our own horrible past is what keeps us from day to day without moving. decisions or indecision of yesterday we hold, we have to endure abuse and deep pain situations. But it is time to recognize that if there is a way, is taking decision now.
As difficult as it is, break the circle now. It's time. Many of us have grown up under the shadow of a mother who was abused, mistreated, canceled ... But do we have to live the same pattern? Can not we use logic and common sense? Should not keep in mind what we suffer and how it feels to live in a hostile home to avoid condemning our children to do likewise? Even ourselves that once we experience it firsthand, we know what it is to abuse and mistreatment, why do we stayed in an abusive relationship? Should not be the first to break the cycle?
is said that women who grew up watching child abuse in all its dimensions, abandonment, infidelity, the mother learned to be forgiving and obey the man, because "that's your cross and you take it to the final "end" of what? How your life? Or is it the end of our obligations to ourselves? The good and bad examples to our children live in are always very helpful, first if they are bad, not to imitate, not to make our children that girl we were sad and downcast us, and if they are good, to follow to the letter and make our children the same happy girl full of dreams that once were. Click on photo to share, and better look
I wonder woman If you ever see your father the male despot and salt
vaje that silenced with a shout, shouting humiliation, insults and contempt with no sideration to their children, much less to his wife, if it hurt, if you suffered, if you feel less than nothing, why did you stick to a man who makes you suffer the same?
Look at the other side of the coin, lived and grew up in a household of love and dedication from both parents, then why let a stranger profane that happiness and even more happiness to your children? We
daily with women who complain and suffer and cry every time I talk about the abuse of their partner, but even with women who have been abandoned , if not liberated from the yoke abuser, because it occurred the male that was a good idea to go in search of a new "victim" and even after experiencing the peace and quiet are always thinking that "someday come back." Go back to that? "To complete its work emotional destruction, not only women but also on their children? Click on photo to share, and better look
often leaving a home of abuse by our parents, we go direct to the circle, whether or not we saw no signs of be with the right partner, it is important to break the vicious circle. But what happens? The girl who grew up in a home where abuse occurred, if only from the mother, the greater will be direct to an abusive marriage. Excuses abound, "I grew up in a household of abuse", "I'm with him for my children ", why your children? And you? Will we continue in this cycle no matter, no thought or remember our dreams of a life without screaming and without abuse? I WILL NOT SAY THAT!
Because many things, including marriage, because we are "an obligation" to society. But do not you and your kids part of that society? Does society need not women "whole", physically and emotionally? Stay at
the marriage of what to say, but what you say than "ouch" when you get hit? What does the little people, your children, when you get hit or when they remain silent? forgive me man, because there are many good, committed, faithful love their sons and their wives, God bless his noble heart, but there are many more than we imagine, they say they can not live without the woman, controversially women can not live with them. Women, let it go, not just your life because your life is gone, let go of your regrets and suffering, let go of your attempts to get him back, send it back the way it came when you try again, because behind forgiveness, comes another and another, I've experienced many times believing in his promises of change stoically get up and do not think more you have to obey the teachings of your mother, the lessons learned to yelling and hitting, not because they do not respect them is that girls are no longer of old who took what you could give including a family of tears, screams and pain.
're now the mother raising and educating new generations, are now a woman with dreams, desires and projects, are you left with your kids? So what? Most likely, that man does not deserve you did not deserve the respect, love, the warmth of home that today there is absolutely everything for you and your children. Can not live without it?
LEARN! Did you not know life without him before meeting him? Remember how you were before you know it, relive your dreams, desires and projects, do not have money? Work, get up every day with faith in God, stand up with the singing of birds, wash, iron, smiles, runs and
back to your home with the satisfaction of winning the sip of milk to your children without depending on it, without having to pay with your dignity and your self a piece of bread that comes and to which his family denies.
Break free, break the circle, do not waste energy thinking that "some day I will find who I value" valórate you, you love yourself, teach your children that the world is not so ruthless, that outside of those doors where abuse is prevalent noble hearts who know love, you know how to respect, they know give and receive love, give to the world strong women, women who know how to get out of the ugly, they know how to get up even before he fell, hit the world men who did not learn the chords of the shouts and insults from the father. Remember that you are the society that calls and demands respect, it deserves respect. Only when you learn to break that cycle will be prepared to wait for the love that I appreciate that you value, love you deserve.
lazy No more thinking that "he was your life", life is much more than a clenched fist crashing into your face, is more than a strong word you do not deserve and that is forever lurking in your dignity and self-esteem, life is effort, value, commitment, determination and a strong and constant struggle.
Breaking the Circle!
As difficult as it is, break the circle now. It's time. Many of us have grown up under the shadow of a mother who was abused, mistreated, canceled ... But do we have to live the same pattern? Can not we use logic and common sense? Should not keep in mind what we suffer and how it feels to live in a hostile home to avoid condemning our children to do likewise? Even ourselves that once we experience it firsthand, we know what it is to abuse and mistreatment, why do we stayed in an abusive relationship? Should not be the first to break the cycle?
is said that women who grew up watching child abuse in all its dimensions, abandonment, infidelity, the mother learned to be forgiving and obey the man, because "that's your cross and you take it to the final "end" of what? How your life? Or is it the end of our obligations to ourselves? The good and bad examples to our children live in are always very helpful, first if they are bad, not to imitate, not to make our children that girl we were sad and downcast us, and if they are good, to follow to the letter and make our children the same happy girl full of dreams that once were. Click on photo to share, and better look
I wonder woman If you ever see your father the male despot and salt
vaje that silenced with a shout, shouting humiliation, insults and contempt with no sideration to their children, much less to his wife, if it hurt, if you suffered, if you feel less than nothing, why did you stick to a man who makes you suffer the same? Look at the other side of the coin, lived and grew up in a household of love and dedication from both parents, then why let a stranger profane that happiness and even more happiness to your children? We
daily with women who complain and suffer and cry every time I talk about the abuse of their partner, but even with women who have been abandoned , if not liberated from the yoke abuser, because it occurred the male that was a good idea to go in search of a new "victim" and even after experiencing the peace and quiet are always thinking that "someday come back." Go back to that? "To complete its work emotional destruction, not only women but also on their children? Click on photo to share, and better look
often leaving a home of abuse by our parents, we go direct to the circle, whether or not we saw no signs of be with the right partner, it is important to break the vicious circle. But what happens? The girl who grew up in a home where abuse occurred, if only from the mother, the greater will be direct to an abusive marriage. Excuses abound, "I grew up in a household of abuse", "I'm with him for my children ", why your children? And you? Will we continue in this cycle no matter, no thought or remember our dreams of a life without screaming and without abuse? I WILL NOT SAY THAT!
Because many things, including marriage, because we are "an obligation" to society. But do not you and your kids part of that society? Does society need not women "whole", physically and emotionally? Stay at
the marriage of what to say, but what you say than "ouch" when you get hit? What does the little people, your children, when you get hit or when they remain silent? forgive me man, because there are many good, committed, faithful love their sons and their wives, God bless his noble heart, but there are many more than we imagine, they say they can not live without the woman, controversially women can not live with them. Women, let it go, not just your life because your life is gone, let go of your regrets and suffering, let go of your attempts to get him back, send it back the way it came when you try again, because behind forgiveness, comes another and another, I've experienced many times believing in his promises of change stoically get up and do not think more you have to obey the teachings of your mother, the lessons learned to yelling and hitting, not because they do not respect them is that girls are no longer of old who took what you could give including a family of tears, screams and pain.
're now the mother raising and educating new generations, are now a woman with dreams, desires and projects, are you left with your kids? So what? Most likely, that man does not deserve you did not deserve the respect, love, the warmth of home that today there is absolutely everything for you and your children. Can not live without it?
LEARN! Did you not know life without him before meeting him? Remember how you were before you know it, relive your dreams, desires and projects, do not have money? Work, get up every day with faith in God, stand up with the singing of birds, wash, iron, smiles, runs and
back to your home with the satisfaction of winning the sip of milk to your children without depending on it, without having to pay with your dignity and your self a piece of bread that comes and to which his family denies. Break free, break the circle, do not waste energy thinking that "some day I will find who I value" valórate you, you love yourself, teach your children that the world is not so ruthless, that outside of those doors where abuse is prevalent noble hearts who know love, you know how to respect, they know give and receive love, give to the world strong women, women who know how to get out of the ugly, they know how to get up even before he fell, hit the world men who did not learn the chords of the shouts and insults from the father. Remember that you are the society that calls and demands respect, it deserves respect. Only when you learn to break that cycle will be prepared to wait for the love that I appreciate that you value, love you deserve.
lazy No more thinking that "he was your life", life is much more than a clenched fist crashing into your face, is more than a strong word you do not deserve and that is forever lurking in your dignity and self-esteem, life is effort, value, commitment, determination and a strong and constant struggle.
Breaking the Circle!
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